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Creativity Quote by Angélique Kidjo

"How can you justify your being as a man if a woman is not at the center of it? Who brought you into this life?"

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Kidjo’s question lands like a drum break: abrupt, impossible to ignore, and designed to pull the listener back to first principles. She doesn’t argue politely for women’s importance; she flips the burden of proof. “How can you justify your being as a man” is a provocation aimed at masculine self-mythology, the story many cultures tell that men are self-made, self-authoring, self-sufficient. Her second line detonates that fantasy with biology and lineage: “Who brought you into this life?” You can’t answer without naming a woman.

The intent isn’t just reverence for motherhood. It’s a strategic rerouting of authority. Kidjo yanks the conversation away from abstract debates about “gender roles” and plants it in a concrete, universally verifiable fact: every man’s origin is relational. In that framing, sidelining women isn’t merely unfair; it’s incoherent, a kind of philosophical amnesia.

As a musician with deep roots in West African traditions and global activism, Kidjo often works in call-and-response mode, where a question isn’t seeking information but demanding recognition. The subtext is accountability: if your identity is built atop women’s labor, care, and creation, then masculinity that devalues women is not strength but denial. There’s also an implicit critique of patriarchal gratitude rituals that praise “Mother” in theory while limiting women in practice. Kidjo’s line insists that centering women isn’t a sentimental gesture; it’s the baseline for an honest story about how any life, including a man’s, actually gets made.

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TopicMother
SourceThe New Yorker interview: “Angélique Kidjo Has Heard It All” by Julian Lucas (Feb. 16, 2022).
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Kidjo, Angélique. (2026, February 16). How can you justify your being as a man if a woman is not at the center of it? Who brought you into this life? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-you-justify-your-being-as-a-man-if-a-185385/

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Kidjo, Angélique. "How can you justify your being as a man if a woman is not at the center of it? Who brought you into this life?" FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-you-justify-your-being-as-a-man-if-a-185385/.

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"How can you justify your being as a man if a woman is not at the center of it? Who brought you into this life?" FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-you-justify-your-being-as-a-man-if-a-185385/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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Angélique Kidjo

Angélique Kidjo (born July 14, 1960) is a Musician from Benin.

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