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Life & Wisdom Quote by Joseph Brodsky

"How delightful to find a friend in everyone"

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Brodsky’s line sounds like a toast, but it lands more like a dare. “How delightful” is doing double duty: it’s an exclamation of pleasure and a performance of pleasure, the kind you offer when you want to believe the world can be gentler than it has been. Coming from a poet exiled by the Soviet state, “find a friend in everyone” reads less like naïve optimism than like hard-won strategy. If you’ve lived under suspicion, friendship becomes a form of shelter; discovering it “in everyone” is either a miracle or a mask.

The verb “find” matters. It implies effort, even scavenging: friendship isn’t granted by society, it’s located in the cracks of it. That makes the sentence feel like a small rebellion against the categories that govern public life - citizen/enemy, loyalist/dissident, insider/outsider. Brodsky’s work often prizes the private realm of conscience and conversation over the official scripts of ideology. Here, the private impulse (befriend) is inflated to a public scale (everyone), which is precisely where the tension hums.

There’s also a sly, almost cosmopolitan subtext: exile teaches you to read strangers fast, to turn translation into intimacy. The line flatters humanity while hinting at loneliness; only someone who has lacked easy belonging would phrase friendship as a surprise. Delight, in Brodsky, is rarely simple joy. It’s joy with teeth, insisting on connection even when history trains you to expect the opposite.

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Brodsky, Joseph. (2026, January 15). How delightful to find a friend in everyone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-delightful-to-find-a-friend-in-everyone-149825/

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Brodsky, Joseph. "How delightful to find a friend in everyone." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-delightful-to-find-a-friend-in-everyone-149825/.

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"How delightful to find a friend in everyone." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-delightful-to-find-a-friend-in-everyone-149825/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Joseph Brodsky (May 24, 1940 - January 28, 1996) was a Poet from USA.

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