"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours"
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The subtext is tougher than it looks. It’s not asking you to be passive; it’s asking you to stop making your nervous system the battleground for someone else’s dysfunction. “How you react is yours” is a quiet indictment of compulsive retaliation and rumination, the modern habits that feel like strength but mostly keep you tethered. Dyer’s psychology background shows in the behavioral clarity: stimulus and response are separable, and the gap between them is where dignity lives.
Context matters, too. Dyer wrote for a late-20th-century audience steeped in therapeutic language and newly hungry for spiritual framing without organized religion’s demands. “Karma” is the perfect imported word: culturally legible, lightly exotic, and conveniently non-specific. It offers justice without courtrooms, boundaries without confrontation. Of course, it can also be misused as a polite way to tolerate mistreatment. Read generously, it’s not an excuse to stay; it’s permission to leave without dragging their chaos into your identity.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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| Source | Later attribution: Who Says You Can't? You Do (Daniel Chidiac, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9780987166517 · ID: jTA_DwAAQBAJ
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