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Daily Inspiration Quote by Wayne Dyer

"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours"

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Dyer’s line is a neat piece of self-help judo: it takes the raw energy of being wronged and redirects it away from the other person’s character and toward your own agency. The phrasing splits life into two jurisdictions. Their behavior belongs to them, with “karma” functioning less as mystical bookkeeping than as moral outsourcing: you don’t have to litigate their motives, fix their upbringing, or win the argument in your head at 2 a.m. The only territory you can actually govern is your response.

The subtext is tougher than it looks. It’s not asking you to be passive; it’s asking you to stop making your nervous system the battleground for someone else’s dysfunction. “How you react is yours” is a quiet indictment of compulsive retaliation and rumination, the modern habits that feel like strength but mostly keep you tethered. Dyer’s psychology background shows in the behavioral clarity: stimulus and response are separable, and the gap between them is where dignity lives.

Context matters, too. Dyer wrote for a late-20th-century audience steeped in therapeutic language and newly hungry for spiritual framing without organized religion’s demands. “Karma” is the perfect imported word: culturally legible, lightly exotic, and conveniently non-specific. It offers justice without courtrooms, boundaries without confrontation. Of course, it can also be misused as a polite way to tolerate mistreatment. Read generously, it’s not an excuse to stay; it’s permission to leave without dragging their chaos into your identity.

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TopicSelf-Discipline
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Later attribution: Who Says You Can't? You Do (Daniel Chidiac, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9780987166517 · ID: jTA_DwAAQBAJ
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"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-people-treat-you-is-their-karma-how-you-react-2309/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Wayne Dyer

Wayne Dyer (March 10, 1940 - August 29, 2015) was a Psychologist from USA.

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