"How shall I lose the sin, yet keep the sense, and love the offender, yet detest the offence?"
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The genius is in the doubled syntax: “lose... yet keep,” “love... yet detest.” Those “yet”s don’t just connect clauses; they dramatize resistance, the mind recoiling from its own logic. “Sense” is the sly word. It can mean reason, but also bodily feeling, even erotic charge. Pope admits what polite piety often disguises: sin can be sensate, vivid, narratively satisfying. Repentance threatens not only the act but the self that enjoyed it. So the speaker’s question isn’t purely ethical; it’s aesthetic and psychological. How do you quit the vice without dulling the life?
Context sharpens the stakes. Pope writes in a culture obsessed with decorum, reputation, and the management of desire - especially in the moralized battleground of sex and social conduct. His Catholic background in Protestant England also tunes him to the problem of separating the person from the transgression: judgment is unavoidable, but charity is commanded. The line anticipates the modern dilemma of “accountability” culture, refusing both easy forgiveness and easy condemnation. It’s not a plea for moral relativism; it’s a portrait of how hard moral clarity is when love, disgust, and self-knowledge occupy the same room.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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Pope, Alexander. (2026, January 16). How shall I lose the sin, yet keep the sense, and love the offender, yet detest the offence? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-shall-i-lose-the-sin-yet-keep-the-sense-and-133917/
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"How shall I lose the sin, yet keep the sense, and love the offender, yet detest the offence?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-shall-i-lose-the-sin-yet-keep-the-sense-and-133917/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







