"How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives"
About this Quote
Dillard’s intent isn’t merely to praise mindfulness; it’s to indict fantasy. “Days” are small, repetitive units, the stuff we dismiss as logistical sludge. “Lives” are the grand narrative we tell ourselves at dinner parties. By equating them, she strips away the romance of exceptionality. You don’t get a separate, curated existence; you get what your habits keep voting for. The subtext is Protestant in its severity, but also artistically pragmatic: for a writer, a day is where the work either happens or doesn’t. The life of the mind is not an abstract identity, it’s a schedule.
Context matters. Dillard’s nonfiction often treats attention as a moral and aesthetic stance: what you look at, you become responsible for. This line belongs to that tradition, but it’s less mystical than managerial. It reads like a spiritual koan disguised as time-tracking advice, turning the reader’s calendar into an X-ray of their values. The sting is that it’s hard to argue with, and harder to outgrow.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Pilgrim at Tinker Creek — Annie Dillard (1974). The line "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives" appears in Dillard's book. |
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Dillard, Annie. (2026, January 16). How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-we-spend-our-days-is-of-course-how-we-spend-139012/
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"How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-we-spend-our-days-is-of-course-how-we-spend-139012/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







