"Humility is a virtue, and it is a virtue innate in guests"
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The joke works because it exposes a hypocrisy that’s polite enough to pass at dinner. Guests perform modesty the way they perform interest in the host’s travel photos: not because they’re transformed, but because the setting demands it. Beerbohm’s subtext is that our best manners are often just our most sophisticated self-preservation. Humility becomes less about moral superiority and more about being fed, invited back, spared discomfort.
There’s a class-and-power undertone, too. “Guest” implies dependency; the host controls comfort, food, and the unspoken scorecard of behavior. In that dynamic, humility is what you call submission when you’re trying to make it look pretty. Beerbohm, a master of drawing-room satire, turns a supposed inner virtue into a temporary costume, one donned precisely when the audience matters. It’s comedy with a sting: if humility appears most reliably when we need something, what does that say about the rest of our moral inventory?
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| Topic | Humility |
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"Humility is a virtue, and it is a virtue innate in guests." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/humility-is-a-virtue-and-it-is-a-virtue-innate-in-105226/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.










