"I absolutely love the fact that they are looking out for me and it's not really even just Charles and Dave. Out on the road, I'm one of very few girls out here. There's a lot of pseudo big brothers who are keeping an eye out on me"
About this Quote
The phrase "looking out for me" does a lot of work. It suggests care, but it also signals surveillance and vulnerability, the way women in public-facing jobs often learn to speak about threat indirectly. "Pseudo big brothers" is especially revealing: family language is deployed to domesticate the power imbalance. By making male colleagues legible as kin, the environment becomes narratable as wholesome rather than precarious. It's a rhetorical move that keeps the focus on solidarity, not on the conditions that make solidarity necessary.
Context matters: touring is transient, late-night, alcohol-adjacent, and reliant on tight crews where reputations travel fast but formal HR structures often don't. Scott's intent is to affirm her team and reassure fans, but the subtext is a map of how women navigate industries where safety is frequently outsourced to "good guys" instead of guaranteed by systems. The line lands because it sounds casual while admitting something structural.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Scott, Hillary. (2026, January 16). I absolutely love the fact that they are looking out for me and it's not really even just Charles and Dave. Out on the road, I'm one of very few girls out here. There's a lot of pseudo big brothers who are keeping an eye out on me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-absolutely-love-the-fact-that-they-are-looking-112357/
Chicago Style
Scott, Hillary. "I absolutely love the fact that they are looking out for me and it's not really even just Charles and Dave. Out on the road, I'm one of very few girls out here. There's a lot of pseudo big brothers who are keeping an eye out on me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-absolutely-love-the-fact-that-they-are-looking-112357/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I absolutely love the fact that they are looking out for me and it's not really even just Charles and Dave. Out on the road, I'm one of very few girls out here. There's a lot of pseudo big brothers who are keeping an eye out on me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-absolutely-love-the-fact-that-they-are-looking-112357/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










