"I actually feel sorry for people who have a lot of illusions in their head about what gay is. I mean, I know some gay people who are really wonderful people"
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The line is also carefully, almost ruefully, calibrated. “I actually feel sorry for people…” performs empathy while quietly asserting superiority: you’re not hateful, you’re misinformed, and I’m past that. It’s a classic actor’s move - play it human, keep the room with you. Then he pivots to “I know some gay people…” which sounds like the familiar straight disclaimer, but in his mouth it reads like a bridge for an audience that may still be catching up. He’s translating: gay isn’t an abstract category or a punchline; it’s people you’d like if you met them.
The subtext is the generational weight Chamberlain carried: a career built in an era when being openly gay could end leading-man status. That history makes the tenderness strategic. He’s not trying to win an argument; he’s trying to dissolve an image. The intent is persuasion by normalization, delivered with the calm authority of someone who had to survive the illusion factory to begin with.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chamberlain, Richard. (2026, January 15). I actually feel sorry for people who have a lot of illusions in their head about what gay is. I mean, I know some gay people who are really wonderful people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-actually-feel-sorry-for-people-who-have-a-lot-153176/
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Chamberlain, Richard. "I actually feel sorry for people who have a lot of illusions in their head about what gay is. I mean, I know some gay people who are really wonderful people." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-actually-feel-sorry-for-people-who-have-a-lot-153176/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I actually feel sorry for people who have a lot of illusions in their head about what gay is. I mean, I know some gay people who are really wonderful people." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-actually-feel-sorry-for-people-who-have-a-lot-153176/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







