"I also had to work through the violation of my date rape, my unhealthy relationships with men, my anger toward the people involved in the scandal, and those who exploited me afterwards"
About this Quote
The specific intent is reclamation through specificity. “Work through” is deliberately unglamorous language, closer to therapy than tabloids. It signals time, repetition, and difficulty. Pairing “violation” with “my date rape” is a blunt correction to a culture that historically sanded down sexual violence into euphemism, especially when the victim’s public image was already being sold back to her as entertainment.
The subtext is a critique of how celebrity converts trauma into public property. Rice separates the original violence from the “people involved in the scandal” and then widens the net to “those who exploited me afterwards,” implicating an ecosystem: political operators, journalists, gawkers, and the market logic that treats a woman’s pain as renewable content. Her “anger” isn’t framed as irrational; it’s positioned as earned, even necessary.
Context matters because Rice became shorthand in the Gary Hart scandal era, a moment when the press discovered it could police private life as public morality. This line flips that script: the real story wasn’t titillation or downfall, but what it cost the person the cameras were pointed at.
Quote Details
| Topic | Betrayal |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rice, Donna. (2026, January 17). I also had to work through the violation of my date rape, my unhealthy relationships with men, my anger toward the people involved in the scandal, and those who exploited me afterwards. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-had-to-work-through-the-violation-of-my-43039/
Chicago Style
Rice, Donna. "I also had to work through the violation of my date rape, my unhealthy relationships with men, my anger toward the people involved in the scandal, and those who exploited me afterwards." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-had-to-work-through-the-violation-of-my-43039/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I also had to work through the violation of my date rape, my unhealthy relationships with men, my anger toward the people involved in the scandal, and those who exploited me afterwards." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-had-to-work-through-the-violation-of-my-43039/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


