"I also use women as a sex object; maybe I'm kinky. However, I like to talk to them as well"
About this Quote
The “However” is where the line reveals its real strategy. “I like to talk to them as well” is pitched as a humanizing add-on, a small act of courtesy offered as moral evidence. Subtext: don’t call me a brute; I’m a brute with conversational range. It’s the classic mid-century masculine bargain - yes, I objectify, but I’m not a monster, I’m charming. Reed’s screen persona traded on exactly that mix: volatility and charisma, menace buffered by wit. The quote reads like brand maintenance.
Context matters: Reed came up in an era when male celebrities were rewarded for public bad behavior, and the press often treated it as roguish color rather than a belief system. The line is self-aware without being self-critical. It anticipates the accusation, repeats it, and then tries to defuse it with a half-apology disguised as a compliment. The result is a neat little capsule of how “lad” culture learned to launder entitlement through humor.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reed, Oliver. (2026, January 15). I also use women as a sex object; maybe I'm kinky. However, I like to talk to them as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-use-women-as-a-sex-object-maybe-im-kinky-5779/
Chicago Style
Reed, Oliver. "I also use women as a sex object; maybe I'm kinky. However, I like to talk to them as well." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-use-women-as-a-sex-object-maybe-im-kinky-5779/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I also use women as a sex object; maybe I'm kinky. However, I like to talk to them as well." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-also-use-women-as-a-sex-object-maybe-im-kinky-5779/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








