"I always find it kind of embarrassing, kind of funny, and kind of exciting. In New York I'm recognized a lot, although nobody says anything. You know, they stare at you just a second too long. But in Paris it's not as commonplace to be recognized"
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New York becomes a city of practiced restraint: people recognize him "a lot" but "nobody says anything". That's not modesty; it's a portrait of an urban code where acknowledging fame risks contaminating the fiction that everyone is equally busy, equally anonymous. The "stare... just a second too long" is a perfectly calibrated image of contemporary spectatorship: everyone wants the private confirmation ("that's him") without the public vulnerability of engagement ("can I say hi?"). Jacobs clocks how fame operates as surveillance as much as admiration.
Paris enters as a foil, not because it's more romantic, but because it's less saturated. "It's not as commonplace to be recognized" reads like relief and deflation at once. In a field built on global visibility, he finds something bracing about being less legible. The subtext is that fashion fame is hyperlocal: your face means one thing in the city where your brand is ambient wallpaper, and something else where you're just another well-dressed stranger.
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Jacobs, Marc. (n.d.). I always find it kind of embarrassing, kind of funny, and kind of exciting. In New York I'm recognized a lot, although nobody says anything. You know, they stare at you just a second too long. But in Paris it's not as commonplace to be recognized. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-find-it-kind-of-embarrassing-kind-of-23184/
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Jacobs, Marc. "I always find it kind of embarrassing, kind of funny, and kind of exciting. In New York I'm recognized a lot, although nobody says anything. You know, they stare at you just a second too long. But in Paris it's not as commonplace to be recognized." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-find-it-kind-of-embarrassing-kind-of-23184/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I always find it kind of embarrassing, kind of funny, and kind of exciting. In New York I'm recognized a lot, although nobody says anything. You know, they stare at you just a second too long. But in Paris it's not as commonplace to be recognized." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-find-it-kind-of-embarrassing-kind-of-23184/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




