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Time & Perspective Quote by Jody Watley

"I always make this joke that I know you were expecting to see the big skirts and the hoops. But that was a long time ago. Artists aren't always seen as real people. If you start out as a teenager, sometimes people want to keep you locked as that. But I'm a woman now"

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She opens with a wink and a trapdoor. The “big skirts and the hoops” joke isn’t just nostalgia bait; it’s a preemptive strike against the audience’s lazy timeline, the way pop culture freezes women in their most marketable era and calls it “iconic.” Watley is naming a familiar dynamic in music: fans and industries treat an artist’s early image like a trademark, something you’re supposed to keep reproducing on demand, even when it no longer fits your body or your life.

The line “Artists aren’t always seen as real people” lands as a quiet accusation. It points to the consumer logic that turns performers into products and then acts betrayed when the product changes. “If you start out as a teenager… people want to keep you locked as that” is especially sharp coming from a woman whose career began in the MTV machinery, where youth reads as currency and growth reads as risk. The subtext: the audience’s affection can be a cage; the brand that made you can also erase you.

Then she flips the power dynamic with a simple, unglamorous declaration: “But I’m a woman now.” No metaphor, no apology. It’s a demand to be met in the present tense, not as a retro reference or a costume. Watley’s intent is less reinvention than reclamation: to insist that maturity isn’t a departure from authenticity, it’s the most basic proof of it.

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Watley, Jody. (n.d.). I always make this joke that I know you were expecting to see the big skirts and the hoops. But that was a long time ago. Artists aren't always seen as real people. If you start out as a teenager, sometimes people want to keep you locked as that. But I'm a woman now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-make-this-joke-that-i-know-you-were-58739/

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Watley, Jody. "I always make this joke that I know you were expecting to see the big skirts and the hoops. But that was a long time ago. Artists aren't always seen as real people. If you start out as a teenager, sometimes people want to keep you locked as that. But I'm a woman now." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-make-this-joke-that-i-know-you-were-58739/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I always make this joke that I know you were expecting to see the big skirts and the hoops. But that was a long time ago. Artists aren't always seen as real people. If you start out as a teenager, sometimes people want to keep you locked as that. But I'm a woman now." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-make-this-joke-that-i-know-you-were-58739/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Jody Watley (born January 30, 1959) is a Musician from USA.

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