"I always mean what I say, but I don't always say what I'm thinking"
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That distinction makes sense coming from an athlete steeped in competitive environments where information is currency. Teams win on preparation, misdirection, and psychological control. In that world, speaking your entire mind isn’t bravery; it’s often bad strategy. Smith frames restraint as a discipline, not a dodge: he’s not lying, he’s choosing. The subtext is respect for the room and for the moment. There are things you say to lead, to steady nerves, to protect teammates, to avoid giving opponents an edge. There are also things you keep back because blunt honesty can be selfish, turning communication into ego release.
The quote works because it rejects the modern fetish for “no filter” authenticity. It argues for a quieter ethic: say fewer things, but stand behind them. In an era that mistakes volume for candor, Smith’s formula treats speech as a commitment and silence as a tool, not a sin.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Dean. (2026, January 16). I always mean what I say, but I don't always say what I'm thinking. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-mean-what-i-say-but-i-dont-always-say-111268/
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Smith, Dean. "I always mean what I say, but I don't always say what I'm thinking." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-mean-what-i-say-but-i-dont-always-say-111268/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I always mean what I say, but I don't always say what I'm thinking." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-mean-what-i-say-but-i-dont-always-say-111268/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





