"I always play women I would date"
About this Quote
The line works because it compresses two cultural scripts - the actress as object, the actress as chameleon - and flips both. "Women I would date" is slyly destabilizing in a system that still treats female characters as things to be wanted rather than people who want. It also hints at Jolie's long-cultivated public persona: daring, self-possessed, slightly dangerous, allergic to being boxed into "good girl" roles. Dating becomes shorthand for identification, not just lust: she plays women whose agency, edges, and appetites she can recognize as plausible, even aspirational.
There's also an implicit critique of the "strong female character" assembly line. Jolie isn't promising virtue; she's promising chemistry. That matters because her most iconic performances trade on heat and volatility as much as heroism. In a career shaped by tabloid mythmaking and a constant tug-of-war between control and projection, the quote doubles as boundary-setting: you can watch me, but I'm still the chooser.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The Advocate: "rants & raves." (quotes column) (Angelina Jolie, 2001)
Evidence: "I always play women I would date.". This is the earliest primary(-ish) publication I could verify online that prints the quote with attribution and context. The Advocate item (dated Feb 27, 2001) says the line is Jolie "talking about her lead role in the upcoming action film Tomb Raider" and that it was "as quoted in the January issue of the British magazine Total Film." That implies the *original* first appearance was in a January 2001 issue of Total Film (UK), during Lara Croft: Tomb Raider (2001) promotion; however, I was not able to retrieve/scans/issue details (issue number/page) from Total Film itself via open web sources in this search session. So: the quote is verifiably published in The Advocate on Feb 27, 2001, and is attributed there to a prior (likely original) Total Film interview in January 2001. Other candidates (1) Wise Women (Carole McKenzie, 2013) compilation95.0% ... I always play women I would date . Lady Fiona Fowler , wife of Norman Fowler , explaining why she uses her maiden... |
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"I always play women I would date." FixQuotes, 1 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-play-women-i-would-date-13888/. Accessed 30 Mar. 2026.




