"I always said life consists of love and work. I tried to balance it 50-50. And, of course, now I'm so happy I did"
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The intent is reassuringly pragmatic. Forsythe isn’t romanticizing love or fetishizing labor; he’s pitching balance as a deliberate craft. That 50-50 claim is the sly part. Nobody’s life is that clean, and he knows it. The neat ratio functions as a performance of control: a way to domesticate chaos, to turn an unpredictable profession into something that sounds manageable, even ethical. In a business famous for eating marriages and distorting priorities, “I tried” matters as much as “I did.” It’s an admission of difficulty disguised as a principle.
Then comes the pivot: “And, of course, now I’m so happy I did.” “Of course” isn’t just breezy; it’s defensive. It anticipates the listener’s skepticism and pre-emptively smooths it over, like an actor hitting a line that must land. The subtext is retrospective bargaining: happiness as the reward for discipline, as if the right choices can retroactively justify the sacrifices. It’s a late-life summation that wants to sound inevitable, even if it was anything but.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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Forsythe, John. (2026, January 16). I always said life consists of love and work. I tried to balance it 50-50. And, of course, now I'm so happy I did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-said-life-consists-of-love-and-work-i-106747/
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Forsythe, John. "I always said life consists of love and work. I tried to balance it 50-50. And, of course, now I'm so happy I did." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-said-life-consists-of-love-and-work-i-106747/.
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"I always said life consists of love and work. I tried to balance it 50-50. And, of course, now I'm so happy I did." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-said-life-consists-of-love-and-work-i-106747/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








