"I always say God should have given women one extra decade at least, especially if you want a family. You're trying to pack a lot in"
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The phrase “especially if you want a family” matters. It’s not a manifesto against ambition or motherhood; it’s an acknowledgement that the supposed menu of modern options comes with a hidden surcharge: time compression. “You’re trying to pack a lot in” sounds casual, but the subtext is exhaustion - the sense that women aren’t simply choosing between paths so much as speed-running them under a clock that men, culturally and biologically, are less punished by. Even “at least” implies the ask is modest, almost laughably reasonable.
Coming from Baranski, a performer known for playing hyper-competent, razor-tongued women, the line also reads like character work: the elegant admission that poise doesn’t cancel pressure. It’s a public-facing quip that smuggles in a private truth - that the culture celebrates women for “having it all” while quietly ensuring they have to do it all at once.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Baranski, Christine. (n.d.). I always say God should have given women one extra decade at least, especially if you want a family. You're trying to pack a lot in. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-say-god-should-have-given-women-one-134454/
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Baranski, Christine. "I always say God should have given women one extra decade at least, especially if you want a family. You're trying to pack a lot in." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-say-god-should-have-given-women-one-134454/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I always say God should have given women one extra decade at least, especially if you want a family. You're trying to pack a lot in." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-say-god-should-have-given-women-one-134454/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







