"I always thought that there was going to be life after baseball, and so I designed that in my life I would have other interests after baseball that I would be able to step into. And I didn't realize the grip that baseball had on me and on my family"
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That word choice matters. Grip isn’t nostalgia; it’s force. Baseball isn’t described as a chapter or a career but as something with leverage over him, something that holds on. Ryan isn’t confessing a lack of preparation so much as acknowledging that preparation can’t fully account for identity. For an athlete whose public myth is durability and command - the flamethrower, the workhorse, the embodiment of self-discipline - this is an uncharacteristically intimate surrender: you can plan for the logistics of life after sport, but you can’t spreadsheet the emotional withdrawal.
The most revealing move is widening the radius from “me” to “my family.” The subtext is that baseball wasn’t just a job he did; it was a household climate, a calendar, a shared set of sacrifices and status. That’s the cultural reality behind legendary careers: the game colonizes more than the athlete’s time. Ryan’s line punctures the romance of clean endings. Retirement isn’t a door you walk through; it’s a hand you pry loose.
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Ryan, Nolan. (2026, January 16). I always thought that there was going to be life after baseball, and so I designed that in my life I would have other interests after baseball that I would be able to step into. And I didn't realize the grip that baseball had on me and on my family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-thought-that-there-was-going-to-be-life-83192/
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Ryan, Nolan. "I always thought that there was going to be life after baseball, and so I designed that in my life I would have other interests after baseball that I would be able to step into. And I didn't realize the grip that baseball had on me and on my family." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-thought-that-there-was-going-to-be-life-83192/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I always thought that there was going to be life after baseball, and so I designed that in my life I would have other interests after baseball that I would be able to step into. And I didn't realize the grip that baseball had on me and on my family." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-always-thought-that-there-was-going-to-be-life-83192/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.


