"I always try to balance the light with the heavy - a few tears of human spirit in with the sequins and the fringes"
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Midler’s genius has always been her refusal to treat glamour as an escape hatch. She treats it as a delivery system. “Balance the light with the heavy” reads like stagecraft, but it’s really a worldview: you don’t neutralize pain by ignoring it; you smuggle it into the room wrapped in something that people will actually look at.
The phrase “a few tears of human spirit” is slyly chosen. Not tragedy, not trauma, not confession - tears, small doses, measured like a cocktail ingredient. Midler is talking about emotional calibration, the way a performer lets vulnerability flicker without letting it flood. It’s a defense against both sentimentality and cynicism: she wants the audience moved, not manipulated; entertained, not anesthetized.
Then she drops the kicker: “sequins and the fringes.” Those aren’t just costume details, they’re a whole aesthetic tradition - camp, showbiz artifice, the hyper-feminine as armor and as invitation. Midler came up in nightlife and theatrical circuits where exaggeration is the language, and she’s always understood that spectacle can carry seriousness precisely because it disarms the viewer. If you show up in full sparkle, people lower their guard. That’s when you can slip in the hard stuff: loneliness, desire, aging, grief, resilience.
The intent isn’t to “make it deep.” It’s to insist that depth is already there, even in the loudest, glossiest moments - and that the real trick is letting the truth glint through the fringe.
The phrase “a few tears of human spirit” is slyly chosen. Not tragedy, not trauma, not confession - tears, small doses, measured like a cocktail ingredient. Midler is talking about emotional calibration, the way a performer lets vulnerability flicker without letting it flood. It’s a defense against both sentimentality and cynicism: she wants the audience moved, not manipulated; entertained, not anesthetized.
Then she drops the kicker: “sequins and the fringes.” Those aren’t just costume details, they’re a whole aesthetic tradition - camp, showbiz artifice, the hyper-feminine as armor and as invitation. Midler came up in nightlife and theatrical circuits where exaggeration is the language, and she’s always understood that spectacle can carry seriousness precisely because it disarms the viewer. If you show up in full sparkle, people lower their guard. That’s when you can slip in the hard stuff: loneliness, desire, aging, grief, resilience.
The intent isn’t to “make it deep.” It’s to insist that depth is already there, even in the loudest, glossiest moments - and that the real trick is letting the truth glint through the fringe.
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| Topic | Art |
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