"I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect"
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The subtext is blunt: oppression works best when it recruits the oppressed to do the work internally. Racism and sexism do not merely exclude; they train you to doubt your own worth, to negotiate your presence, to mistake endurance for dignity. Jordan counters that with a radical, unsentimental definition of self-love. It is not self-esteem in the therapeutic sense. It is a political technology, something you do "as though my very life depends upon" it because, in her America, it often does.
Context sharpens the force. Jordan wrote out of Black feminist and queer-aligned movements where mainstream feminism routinely centered white women, and civil rights rhetoric often sidelined gender. By yoking Blackness and feminism, she refuses the demand to choose which part of herself is "the real issue". The line reads like a survival manual and a critique: any liberation project that doesn't require self-respect from its members is already conceding ground.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Evidence: I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black. It means that I must undertake to love myself and respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect. (Opening address; later reprinted as essay starting on page 140 in Civil Wars). The earliest primary-source evidence I found is UC Berkeley Library's transcription of June Jordan's piece "Where Is the Love?" The library identifies it as an edited version of the opening address Jordan delivered on May 4, 1978, on the panel "Black Women Writers and Feminism" at the National Black Writers' Conference at Howard University in Washington, D.C. The same piece was later collected in Jordan's book Civil Wars. Google Books table of contents for the 1995 Touchstone reprint shows "Where Is the Love? 1978" beginning on page 140, and WorldCat notes that Civil Wars was originally published by Beacon Press in 1981. So the quote appears to have been FIRST spoken as part of that May 4, 1978 address, then published in book form in Civil Wars (1981). The wording commonly circulated with commas instead of periods is a punctuation variant; the Berkeley transcription gives the wording above. Other candidates (1) I Am Your Sister (Rudolph P. Byrd, Johnnetta Betsch Col..., 2009) compilation100.0% ... I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jordan, June. (2026, March 16). I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/
Chicago Style
Jordan, June. "I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect." FixQuotes. March 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect." FixQuotes, 16 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/. Accessed 17 Mar. 2026.






