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Love & Passion Quote by Victoria Woodhull

"I am a free lover. I have an inalienable, constitutional and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or short a period as I can; to change that love every day if I please"

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Woodhull doesn’t flirt with scandal here; she grabs it by the collar and drags it into the language of American legitimacy. By stacking “inalienable,” “constitutional,” and “natural” in one breath, she’s not just defending unconventional desire - she’s staging a jurisdictional takeover. Love, in her framing, isn’t a private indulgence the state may tolerate. It’s a right on par with speech, property, and bodily autonomy. The audacity is the point: she wants the same moral seriousness for erotic choice that 19th-century America reserved for contracts and citizenship.

The phrase “free lover” was a live wire in the 1870s, when women were legally and economically trapped in marriage, divorce was punitive, and “respectability” functioned as social policing. Woodhull’s subtext is surgical: if marriage is treated as destiny, then it’s also coercion. Her insistence on loving “as long or short” as she can, and even changing “every day,” isn’t a manifesto for caprice so much as a refusal to let permanence be confused with virtue. She exposes how the culture uses duration as a moral alibi: the longer the attachment, the more society pretends it must be legitimate.

There’s also a strategic provocation baked in. By pushing freedom to its most unsettling edge - daily change - she forces readers to confront the real question: do women possess self-ownership, or are they permanently leased? In an era that treated female sexuality as both property and threat, Woodhull makes volatility sound like liberty, and that rhetorical reversal is exactly why the line still bites.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Woodhull, Victoria. (2026, January 16). I am a free lover. I have an inalienable, constitutional and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or short a period as I can; to change that love every day if I please. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-free-lover-i-have-an-inalienable-98002/

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Woodhull, Victoria. "I am a free lover. I have an inalienable, constitutional and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or short a period as I can; to change that love every day if I please." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-free-lover-i-have-an-inalienable-98002/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am a free lover. I have an inalienable, constitutional and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or short a period as I can; to change that love every day if I please." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-free-lover-i-have-an-inalienable-98002/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Victoria Woodhull (September 23, 1838 - June 9, 1927) was a Activist from USA.

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