"I am a friend of the working man, and I would rather be his friend, than be one"
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The specific intent is double. First, Darrow is admitting class preference without varnish: being a worker is brutal, precarious, and undesired by those with options. Second, he’s exposing the moral theater of allyship. Friendship costs less than solidarity; it lets you feel virtuous while keeping your insulation. By saying it out loud, Darrow both implicates himself and indicts the social order that makes “being one” an obviously worse deal.
The subtext is also strategic. As a lawyer who often defended labor organizers and unpopular clients, Darrow knew he was never going to be mistaken for a miner or a machinist. He leans into that distance rather than pretending it isn’t there, and in doing so he buys credibility: better an honest advocate than a patronizing poseur. The cynicism is calibrated, not nihilistic. It’s a reminder that sympathy is easy; the real scandal is a society where decent people can’t imagine choosing the life they praise in speeches.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Darrow, Clarence. (2026, January 17). I am a friend of the working man, and I would rather be his friend, than be one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-friend-of-the-working-man-and-i-would-81163/
Chicago Style
Darrow, Clarence. "I am a friend of the working man, and I would rather be his friend, than be one." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-friend-of-the-working-man-and-i-would-81163/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am a friend of the working man, and I would rather be his friend, than be one." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-friend-of-the-working-man-and-i-would-81163/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









