"I am a greedy, selfish bastard. I want the fact that I existed to mean something"
About this Quote
The subtext is that altruism and ego aren’t opposites; they’re often co-conspirators. Chapin’s best-known work ("Cat’s in the Cradle") is basically a parable about missed meaning, about time slipping away while you tell yourself you’re building something that matters. This quote reads like the behind-the-scenes thesis: the drive to leave a mark is inseparable from the fear of being forgettable, and the fear is what keeps the engine running.
Context matters because Chapin wasn’t just a singer; he was also famously involved in activism around hunger and poverty. That makes the self-drag sharper, not softer. He’s preempting cynics who suspect do-gooding is just ego in a better outfit. By naming the vanity out loud, he earns a kind of credibility: he’s not claiming sainthood, he’s admitting the messy bargain a lot of public-facing compassion rests on. He wants meaning, and he’s willing to show the embarrassing part of wanting it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chapin, Harry. (2026, January 14). I am a greedy, selfish bastard. I want the fact that I existed to mean something. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-greedy-selfish-bastard-i-want-the-fact-133302/
Chicago Style
Chapin, Harry. "I am a greedy, selfish bastard. I want the fact that I existed to mean something." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-greedy-selfish-bastard-i-want-the-fact-133302/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am a greedy, selfish bastard. I want the fact that I existed to mean something." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-greedy-selfish-bastard-i-want-the-fact-133302/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











