"I am always begging them to spare me this chasing after men"
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The phrasing “them” stays deliberately vague, which is its own tell. It could be directors, producers, publicists, or the abstract machine of the studio system. That ambiguity mirrors the reality: there wasn’t a single villain, just a set of incentives that made romantic pursuit the default female storyline, on screen and off. “Chasing after men” flips the expected script, too. Women in classic Hollywood were often framed as being chased; Leslie’s line suggests roles where the woman is written as eager, striving, maybe even desperate. It’s a critique of how quickly agency gets mistaken for appetite when it’s assigned to female characters.
There’s also a tonal tightrope here: she sounds weary, not prudish. She’s asking to be spared, not sanctified. Underneath is a demand for range - for work that isn’t just a romantic subplot in different costumes. In one sentence, Leslie exposes how “star image” could become a cage, and how resisting it often had to be done in the soft language of request rather than outright refusal.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Leslie, Joan. (2026, January 17). I am always begging them to spare me this chasing after men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-always-begging-them-to-spare-me-this-chasing-56244/
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Leslie, Joan. "I am always begging them to spare me this chasing after men." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-always-begging-them-to-spare-me-this-chasing-56244/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am always begging them to spare me this chasing after men." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-always-begging-them-to-spare-me-this-chasing-56244/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








