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Love Quote by Marlene Dietrich

"I am at heart a gentleman"

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Dietrich’s “I am at heart a gentleman” lands like a silk-gloved slap to the era’s gender rulebook. She isn’t confessing a private identity so much as hijacking a social credential. “Gentleman” is a word that once functioned as a passport: it grants authority, sexual freedom, worldly cynicism, and the right to move through public space with minimal explanation. Dietrich takes that passport, signs her own name, and dares you to challenge the signature.

The line works because it’s both flirtation and critique. She chose “gentleman,” not “man,” sidestepping biology and aiming directly at behavior and status. A gentleman is made, performed, recognized - which is exactly Dietrich’s terrain. In her films and public image, she cultivated an androgynous glamour that treated gender as wardrobe, lighting, and attitude. Think tuxedos, top hats, and that cool, appraising stare: not a rejection of femininity, but a refusal to let femininity be a cage.

There’s also mischief in the understatement. “At heart” implies a hidden core, yet Dietrich’s fame was built on surfaces: costume, voice, silhouette, pose. The joke is that the “heart” is just another stage. By claiming gentlemanliness, she flips the moral script too. The gentleman is supposed to be chivalrous; Dietrich’s version is self-possessed, sexually sovereign, and allergic to obedience. It’s a line that turns etiquette into insurgency, using the language of respectability to puncture it from the inside.

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Dietrich, Marlene. (2026, January 15). I am at heart a gentleman. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-at-heart-a-gentleman-153814/

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"I am at heart a gentleman." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-at-heart-a-gentleman-153814/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Marlene Dietrich (December 27, 1901 - May 6, 1992) was a Actress from USA.

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