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Science Quote by Mary Douglas

"I am convinced that living in an enclave shapes the personality, and living alone shapes the personality too"

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Mary Douglas is doing what she always did best: taking what sounds like a private confession and quietly turning it into a social theorem. The line refuses the comforting idea that “personality” is some sealed interior essence. Instead, it’s an artifact of arrangement. Not just culture in the big sense, but architecture in the social sense: who you live with, how porous your boundaries are, what kinds of attention and surveillance you can’t escape.

Her word choice matters. “Enclave” isn’t just “community.” It suggests a bounded, self-protective pocket with rules, gatekeeping, and a shared way of sorting insiders from outsiders. In Douglas’s intellectual world - where purity, danger, and classification organize daily life - enclaves train people into high sensitivity to norms: you learn what counts as contamination, what counts as loyalty, how to read micro-signals of belonging. That kind of living produces a personality that is socially legible, sometimes rigidly so.

Then she pivots: “living alone shapes the personality too.” The “too” is the blade. It undercuts the moral hierarchy we often attach to solitude, whether we romanticize it as freedom or pathologize it as isolation. Douglas implies solitude is not neutral; it’s another social technology. Living alone can intensify self-authorship, but it also forces you to become your own regulator, your own audience, your own boundary police.

The intent is quietly radical: stop treating personality as pre-social, and start seeing it as responsive to the thick or thin environments we inhabit. Douglas isn’t arguing for one arrangement over another. She’s insisting that every arrangement makes a person - and that’s precisely why “choice” in how we live is never just personal. It’s political, and it’s formative.

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Douglas, Mary. (2026, January 17). I am convinced that living in an enclave shapes the personality, and living alone shapes the personality too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-living-in-an-enclave-shapes-63935/

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Douglas, Mary. "I am convinced that living in an enclave shapes the personality, and living alone shapes the personality too." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-living-in-an-enclave-shapes-63935/.

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"I am convinced that living in an enclave shapes the personality, and living alone shapes the personality too." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-living-in-an-enclave-shapes-63935/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Douglas (March 25, 1921 - May 16, 2007) was a Scientist from United Kingdom.

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