"I am convinced that material things can contribute a lot to making one's life pleasant, but, basically, if you do not have very good friends and relatives who matter to you, life will be really empty and sad and material things cease to be important"
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Then the pivot: “basically.” It’s a disarming word, almost impatient, as if he’s sweeping away the elaborate rationalizations that money invites. Rockefeller frames meaning not as self-actualization or legacy but as a practical ecosystem of “very good friends and relatives who matter to you.” The repetition is doing work: not acquaintances, not a network, not admirers - people with weight. That’s a notable choice from a businessman whose world runs on relationships that are often transactional. The subtext is a critique of status society from the inside: you can be surrounded and still be alone, connected and still unsupported.
Context matters. Rockefeller’s lifetime spans the Great Depression, postwar American ascendancy, the institutionalization of philanthropy, and the era when corporate power learned to speak the language of public service. This quote fits that cultural script while quietly undermining it. It offers a moral not about renouncing wealth, but about its diminishing returns: money can decorate a life, but it can’t populate it. The sadness he names isn’t dramatic; it’s terminally quiet - the kind that arrives when there’s no one left who would visit you without a reason.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rockefeller, David. (2026, January 17). I am convinced that material things can contribute a lot to making one's life pleasant, but, basically, if you do not have very good friends and relatives who matter to you, life will be really empty and sad and material things cease to be important. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-material-things-can-76591/
Chicago Style
Rockefeller, David. "I am convinced that material things can contribute a lot to making one's life pleasant, but, basically, if you do not have very good friends and relatives who matter to you, life will be really empty and sad and material things cease to be important." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-material-things-can-76591/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am convinced that material things can contribute a lot to making one's life pleasant, but, basically, if you do not have very good friends and relatives who matter to you, life will be really empty and sad and material things cease to be important." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-convinced-that-material-things-can-76591/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








