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Friendship Quote by John Hawley

"I am disposed to be thus particular from the interest you take in our welfare and from the entire confidence I have in your knowing, that you will be sympathetic with us in our misfortunes"

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What reads like polite precision is really a strategic bid for care, credibility, and protection. Hawley’s “disposed to be thus particular” signals that he’s about to offer details not for pleasure, but because circumstances require a record. “Particular” is doing double duty: it promises specificity while quietly justifying it, the way someone might preface a hard story with, I wouldn’t say this if I didn’t have to. The sentence is formal, but the emotional mechanics are intimate.

The subtext is an appeal built on relationship capital. Hawley frames the recipient as already invested (“the interest you take in our welfare”), then leverages that investment into an obligation to listen, believe, and perhaps intervene. “Entire confidence” is less a compliment than a constraint: once you’re cast as the person who understands and sympathizes, failing to do so becomes a kind of betrayal. The line anticipates skepticism without naming it; it inoculates the account against dismissal by anchoring it in trust.

The plural “our” matters. This isn’t private melodrama but communal hardship, suggesting family, dependents, or a small group exposed to forces beyond their control. “Misfortunes” is also tactically vague: it can cover financial loss, illness, political trouble, or social disgrace while keeping the exact cause negotiable. In a period when letters often doubled as evidence, petitions, or introductions, Hawley’s tone reads like someone building a case: sympathetic recipient, credible narrator, necessary details forthcoming. The intent isn’t just to be understood; it’s to activate sympathy into consequence.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hawley, John. (2026, January 15). I am disposed to be thus particular from the interest you take in our welfare and from the entire confidence I have in your knowing, that you will be sympathetic with us in our misfortunes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-disposed-to-be-thus-particular-from-the-168967/

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Hawley, John. "I am disposed to be thus particular from the interest you take in our welfare and from the entire confidence I have in your knowing, that you will be sympathetic with us in our misfortunes." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-disposed-to-be-thus-particular-from-the-168967/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am disposed to be thus particular from the interest you take in our welfare and from the entire confidence I have in your knowing, that you will be sympathetic with us in our misfortunes." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-disposed-to-be-thus-particular-from-the-168967/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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