"I am extraordinarily patient, provided I get my own way in the end"
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The subtext is pure power calculus. Thatcher frames relentlessness as calm endurance, recasting stubbornness as restraint. That rhetorical move matters because it defangs the charge most often leveled at her: that she was inflexible, doctrinaire, the "Iron Lady". She doesn't deny it; she rebrands it. Patience becomes the respectable cover for a long game in which opponents are invited to bargain, only to discover the destination was never negotiable.
Context makes the threat legible. Thatcher governed in an era when Britain was negotiating its post-imperial identity amid stagflation, union militancy, and a crisis of confidence. Her project - shrinking the state, breaking organized labor's veto power, reasserting national resolve - required not just dramatic confrontations but also sustained endurance through unpopularity, internal party revolt, and economic pain. The line signals to allies and adversaries alike: you can slow me down, you can make me wait, but you can't make me yield. It's not about dialogue; it's about inevitability.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sarcastic |
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| Source | Verified source: Oxford Dictionary of Humorous Quotations (Gyles Brandreth, 2013)ISBN: 9780199681365 · ID: kcycAQAAQBAJ
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... I am extraordinarily patient , provided I get my own way in the end . □ Margaret Thatcher 1925-2013 British Conservative stateswoman : in Observer 4 April 1989 24 Pavarotti is not vain , but conscious of being unique . □ Peter Ustinov ... |
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