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Love & Passion Quote by Toni Braxton

"I am fed up with men who use sex like a sleeping pill"

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It lands like a side-eye in sentence form: funny, blunt, and a little bruised. Toni Braxton’s line takes the most intimate act and frames it as an over-the-counter aid, reducing what’s supposed to be mutual connection into a one-sided routine. The insult isn’t just that the sex is bad; it’s that the purpose is lazy. A “sleeping pill” implies checkout, not closeness - the body used as a switch to turn off tension, turn off thinking, turn off the need to actually engage.

The specific intent is boundary-setting with bite. Braxton isn’t policing desire; she’s calling out a pattern where some men treat sex as maintenance: get release, get comfort, roll over. The subtext is exhaustion with emotional labor. If sex becomes a tool for sedation, then the partner becomes an appliance - something to soothe, not someone to know. That’s why the phrasing works: it’s domestic, unsexy, almost pathetic. A pill is private, solitary. It’s not a shared experience; it’s self-management.

Context matters because Braxton’s public persona has long balanced vulnerability with control - a voice built for longing, but a career navigated through scrutiny, relationship narratives, and the expectation that women performers package desire for consumption. This quote flips that script. It refuses the “sex symbol” bargain and instead demands reciprocity: attention, presence, maybe even conversation before the lights go out. The humor is a weapon, but the wound underneath is real.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Braxton, Toni. (2026, January 16). I am fed up with men who use sex like a sleeping pill. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-fed-up-with-men-who-use-sex-like-a-sleeping-124167/

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Braxton, Toni. "I am fed up with men who use sex like a sleeping pill." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-fed-up-with-men-who-use-sex-like-a-sleeping-124167/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am fed up with men who use sex like a sleeping pill." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-fed-up-with-men-who-use-sex-like-a-sleeping-124167/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Toni Braxton (born October 7, 1968) is a Musician from USA.

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