"I am happy that women can relate to my songs, and hopefully men can too"
About this Quote
The pivot is the quiet politics: “hopefully men can too.” It’s not a demand, it’s an invitation. McBride knows the default assumption is that women are expected to empathize across gender (women sing along to men’s heartbreak narratives constantly), while men are rarely asked to do the reverse without it being framed as weakness. By phrasing it as “hopefully,” she sidesteps a macho backlash and positions empathy as optional-but-desirable, a soft challenge to the listener who might otherwise tune out the moment a song centers a woman’s experience.
The subtext is also strategic branding. McBride’s catalog often leans into stories about domestic abuse, resilience, and everyday female stakes; those songs succeed because they’re specific, not “relatable” in a generic way. She’s arguing that specificity is the doorway, not the barrier: if the emotions are honest, gender shouldn’t be a gatekeeper. In one sentence, she defends women’s perspective as mainstream and dares men to meet it there.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McBride, Martina. (2026, January 16). I am happy that women can relate to my songs, and hopefully men can too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-happy-that-women-can-relate-to-my-songs-and-108156/
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McBride, Martina. "I am happy that women can relate to my songs, and hopefully men can too." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-happy-that-women-can-relate-to-my-songs-and-108156/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am happy that women can relate to my songs, and hopefully men can too." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-happy-that-women-can-relate-to-my-songs-and-108156/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




