"I am married to the theater, and the films are only my mistress"
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The subtext is also defensive. Werner was a celebrated screen actor (Jules and Jim, Fahrenheit 451), but he famously distrusted the machinery around cinema: producers, schedules, publicists, the feeling of being packaged. Calling film a “mistress” acknowledges its pleasures without surrendering moral authority to it. It’s a way of saying: yes, I take the job, I enjoy the affair, but don’t mistake my fame for my home.
Context matters: mid-century European actors were navigating a cultural split where theater still carried old-world prestige and film was becoming the mass medium with global leverage. Werner’s phrasing flatters theater as the “legitimate” spouse while keeping the romance of cinema intact. It’s witty, but it’s also a boundary-setting move - an actor insisting he’s not simply a product of the screen, but a practitioner of a harder, less forgiving art that can’t be edited into bravery.
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