"I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves"
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The phrasing matters. “More and more convinced” signals a hard-earned conclusion, not a doctrine delivered from on high. It suggests lived encounters with disappointment, political upheaval, and the limits of institutional control - Humboldt lived through revolution-era Europe and helped shape Prussian educational reforms. He’s arguing that external arrangements, while real, are blunt instruments compared to the fine-grained work of developing resilient perception.
The subtext is quietly polemical. He downshifts blame from fate to agency, but not in the modern hustle-culture way that denies structural hardship. Instead he frames agency as interpretive: a disciplined capacity to choose meaning, to keep dignity intact when circumstances can’t be edited. That’s also why the sentence is ethically loaded. If response outweighs event, then character becomes destiny - and society’s obligation shifts toward cultivating people capable of liberty, not merely administering them.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Humboldt, Wilhelm von. (2026, January 16). I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-more-and-more-convinced-that-our-happiness-97873/
Chicago Style
Humboldt, Wilhelm von. "I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-more-and-more-convinced-that-our-happiness-97873/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-more-and-more-convinced-that-our-happiness-97873/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









