Skip to main content

Love & Passion Quote by Shirley Manson

"I am not a sexy woman, I'm not beautiful, I'm not a sex kitten, I don't flirt with people, yet I've been tagged more of sex symbol than women who truly are and I that's solely because I don't reveal too much: people are curious"

About this Quote

Shirley Manson is doing something pop culture rarely lets women do: narrate her own image while dismantling it. The quote reads like a refusal, but it’s also a diagnosis. She rejects the packaged vocabulary of desirability ("sexy woman", "beautiful", "sex kitten") not because she’s naïve about its power, but because she’s seen how cheaply it can be assigned. The sting is in the contradiction she points out: she’s been branded a sex symbol precisely by not performing sex-symbol behavior. That’s not modesty; it’s a critique of how spectatorship works.

Her intent is to expose the mechanics of projection. Manson frames sex appeal as an economy of information: the less you reveal, the more the audience fills in. Curiosity becomes a kind of erotic engine, and mystery is treated as consent to fantasize. In a media landscape that rewards overexposure and punishes women for it, she’s naming the perverse loophole: withholding can be misread as sophistication, control, even invitation.

The subtext is feminist but not sanctimonious. She’s not saying sexuality is bad; she’s saying the label is often detached from the person and attached to the audience’s hunger. Coming up through 1990s alt-rock, a space that sold "authenticity" while still marketing women’s bodies, Manson occupied a tightrope: defiant, stylized, guarded. This line captures her awareness that agency and objectification can coexist in the same spotlight, and the spotlight rarely cares which one you intended.

Quote Details

TopicConfidence
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Manson, Shirley. (2026, January 17). I am not a sexy woman, I'm not beautiful, I'm not a sex kitten, I don't flirt with people, yet I've been tagged more of sex symbol than women who truly are and I that's solely because I don't reveal too much: people are curious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-a-sexy-woman-im-not-beautiful-im-not-a-81809/

Chicago Style
Manson, Shirley. "I am not a sexy woman, I'm not beautiful, I'm not a sex kitten, I don't flirt with people, yet I've been tagged more of sex symbol than women who truly are and I that's solely because I don't reveal too much: people are curious." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-a-sexy-woman-im-not-beautiful-im-not-a-81809/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am not a sexy woman, I'm not beautiful, I'm not a sex kitten, I don't flirt with people, yet I've been tagged more of sex symbol than women who truly are and I that's solely because I don't reveal too much: people are curious." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-a-sexy-woman-im-not-beautiful-im-not-a-81809/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Shirley Add to List
Shirley Manson on mystery, agency, and the sexual gaze
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

Scotland Flag

Shirley Manson (born August 26, 1966) is a Musician from Scotland.

23 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

Jenny McCarthy, Model
Jason Isaacs, Actor
Izabella Scorupco, Actress
Izabella Scorupco
Wentworth Miller, Actor