"I am not the kind of woman who excuses her mistakes while reminding us of what used to be"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Not the kind of woman” signals that femininity itself is being treated as a category with expectations and scripts. She’s aware of the archetype she could inhabit: the fallen star, the repentant ingenue, the woman who softens judgment by leaning on “what used to be.” Instead, she insists on a colder integrity: mistakes are owned without being padded by a highlight reel.
There’s also a quiet jab at the culture that demands the padding. Old Hollywood thrived on mythology - careers and reputations were constantly edited, rehabilitated, re-sold. For actresses especially, aging and scandal weren’t just personal events; they were market events. “Reminding us of what used to be” names the trap of living as a before-and-after photo, forever auditioning against your own past.
Tierney’s subtext isn’t “I have no regrets.” It’s: don’t let me manipulate you, and don’t ask me to. The strength is in the refusal to perform likability as a defense strategy, choosing self-respect over the soft power of nostalgia.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tierney, Gene. (2026, January 17). I am not the kind of woman who excuses her mistakes while reminding us of what used to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-the-kind-of-woman-who-excuses-her-55159/
Chicago Style
Tierney, Gene. "I am not the kind of woman who excuses her mistakes while reminding us of what used to be." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-the-kind-of-woman-who-excuses-her-55159/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am not the kind of woman who excuses her mistakes while reminding us of what used to be." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-not-the-kind-of-woman-who-excuses-her-55159/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.





