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"I am, out of the ladies' company, like a fish out of the water"

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Shadwell’s line plays like a throwaway confession, but it’s really a comic flex: masculinity framed as dependence. “Out of the ladies’ company” isn’t merely loneliness; it’s exile from the social ecosystem where a Restoration man performs charm, status, and wit. The fish image does two things at once. It pretends to be helpless - gasping, flopping, ridiculous - while quietly asserting that “the ladies” are his natural habitat, the element in which he thrives. That double move is classic stagecraft: self-deprecation as seduction.

The intent lands in the Restoration comedy world Shadwell helped define, where conversations between men and women are less romance than sport. Women in this theater aren’t just love interests; they’re power brokers in miniature courts of fashion, gossip, and reputation. So to be without them is to be cut off from the currency of the age: attention. The line flatters its audience too, especially female listeners, by casting their presence as oxygen. It’s a compliment with an angle.

Subtextually, there’s anxiety under the bravado. A fish out of water isn’t simply bored; it’s in danger of dying. Shadwell lets the joke reveal a social truth: in a culture obsessed with performance, the worst punishment isn’t rejection but irrelevance - being left with only other men, and no one worth impressing.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shadwell, Thomas. (2026, January 16). I am, out of the ladies' company, like a fish out of the water. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-out-of-the-ladies-company-like-a-fish-out-of-136648/

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Shadwell, Thomas. "I am, out of the ladies' company, like a fish out of the water." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-out-of-the-ladies-company-like-a-fish-out-of-136648/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am, out of the ladies' company, like a fish out of the water." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-out-of-the-ladies-company-like-a-fish-out-of-136648/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Thomas Shadwell (1642 AC - 1692 AC) was a Dramatist from England.

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