"I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way"
About this Quote
The line’s charm is its slightly mangled idiom - “drums to his own drummer” - a folksy redundancy that reads less like a polished soundbite and more like something said in real time, with affection leading the sentence and precision trailing behind. That looseness is part of the intent: it suggests she’s not marketing “Kirk” as a brand; she’s defending him as a person. The repetition (“in every way”) doubles down, implying this isn’t a phase or a single quirk but an entire posture toward life.
Subtextually, it’s also a preemptive shield. You don’t emphasize someone’s self-directedness unless that self-direction has been criticized, misunderstood, or inconvenient. Grant - an actress who lived through an industry that polices behavior and image - knows how conformity gets enforced through gossip, casting, and the soft violence of being labeled “difficult.” Her sentence reclaims that label and flips it into virtue: he’s not unruly, he’s self-authored. In a culture addicted to validation, she’s celebrating the refusal to audition for it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Pride |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grant, Lee. (2026, January 16). I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/
Chicago Style
Grant, Lee. "I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.