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Daily Inspiration Quote by Lee Grant

"I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way"

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Grant’s praise lands with the casual warmth of a family aside, but it’s doing sharper cultural work: it frames nonconformity as both character and accomplishment. “Proud” is the giveaway. Pride usually attaches to achievements the world recognizes; here it’s attached to temperament. She’s applauding a way of being, not a résumé line, which quietly challenges the usual celebrity-parent script where approval is earned through fame, stability, or normalcy.

The line’s charm is its slightly mangled idiom - “drums to his own drummer” - a folksy redundancy that reads less like a polished soundbite and more like something said in real time, with affection leading the sentence and precision trailing behind. That looseness is part of the intent: it suggests she’s not marketing “Kirk” as a brand; she’s defending him as a person. The repetition (“in every way”) doubles down, implying this isn’t a phase or a single quirk but an entire posture toward life.

Subtextually, it’s also a preemptive shield. You don’t emphasize someone’s self-directedness unless that self-direction has been criticized, misunderstood, or inconvenient. Grant - an actress who lived through an industry that polices behavior and image - knows how conformity gets enforced through gossip, casting, and the soft violence of being labeled “difficult.” Her sentence reclaims that label and flips it into virtue: he’s not unruly, he’s self-authored. In a culture addicted to validation, she’s celebrating the refusal to audition for it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grant, Lee. (2026, January 16). I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/

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Grant, Lee. "I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am proud of Kirk. I think he drums to his own drummer in every way." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-proud-of-kirk-i-think-he-drums-to-his-own-107644/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Lee Grant (born October 31, 1927) is a Actress from USA.

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