"I am provocative, and I admit this. It isn't as if I'm only on the receiving end, a poor, frail little creature. I can be thoroughly nasty when I get going, and I don't pull my punches"
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The subtext is tactical. Suzman is signaling that provocation is not a personality flaw but a method. In apartheid-era South African politics - where she was famously isolated in Parliament as a relentless liberal critic - “provocative” reads as code for unwilling to perform deference. She frames her combative stance as reciprocal: if the system is violent, politeness becomes complicity. “I don’t pull my punches” borrows the language of the ring to reframe debate as a fight with stakes, not a salon game.
It also anticipates the gendered double standard. A man “doesn’t pull his punches” and earns a reputation for toughness; a woman is “nasty.” Suzman reclaims the insult, almost daring you to clutch your pearls. The intent is credibility through candor: she doesn’t sanitize her edge, because the work she’s defending - truth-telling under a coercive regime - can’t afford gentility as its brand.
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Suzman, Helen. (n.d.). I am provocative, and I admit this. It isn't as if I'm only on the receiving end, a poor, frail little creature. I can be thoroughly nasty when I get going, and I don't pull my punches. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-provocative-and-i-admit-this-it-isnt-as-if-146623/
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Suzman, Helen. "I am provocative, and I admit this. It isn't as if I'm only on the receiving end, a poor, frail little creature. I can be thoroughly nasty when I get going, and I don't pull my punches." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-provocative-and-i-admit-this-it-isnt-as-if-146623/.
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"I am provocative, and I admit this. It isn't as if I'm only on the receiving end, a poor, frail little creature. I can be thoroughly nasty when I get going, and I don't pull my punches." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-provocative-and-i-admit-this-it-isnt-as-if-146623/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








