"I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life"
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The key phrase is "my attitude". Anderson isn't selling sunny optimism; he's insisting on moral authorship. Misfortunes are described as "inevitable" and life-darkening, a tonal choice that rejects the self-help fantasy that pain is optional or always meaningful. The subtext is a critique of two familiar evasions: the control myth ("If I'm smart enough, nothing bad will happen") and the victim script ("Since I can't stop it, I'm absolved"). He denies both. You can't always steer the storm, but you are answerable for whether you become cruel, numb, or smaller inside it.
Context matters: a writer who lived through the first half of the 20th century would have seen misfortune on an industrial scale - war, depression, social upheaval - the kind of reality that makes cheap positivity obscene. Anderson's intent is practical and bracing: if tragedy is part of the contract, dignity is how you negotiate your share of it.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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Anderson, Walter. (2026, January 18). I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-responsible-although-i-may-not-be-able-to-3972/
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Anderson, Walter. "I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-responsible-although-i-may-not-be-able-to-3972/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-responsible-although-i-may-not-be-able-to-3972/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









