"I am six feet tall. I am not supposed to be afraid"
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Masculinity gets measured in inches, and Keith Miller is calling the bluff. “I am six feet tall” reads like a credential, the kind that’s supposed to buy you safety, authority, maybe even invulnerability. Then he snaps the illusion in half: “I am not supposed to be afraid.” The hinge is “supposed to” - not “am not,” but “am not allowed.” Fear isn’t the problem; the expectation is.
The line is spare, almost transactional, which is why it stings. Height becomes shorthand for a whole social contract: tall men are cast as protectors, threats, anchors. You take up space, so you’re expected to control it. Miller’s sentence exposes how quickly we convert bodies into roles, and roles into emotional gag orders. It’s also quietly comic in the bleak way that good candor often is: as if six feet were a magic threshold where biology cancels anxiety. The absurdity is the point.
Contextually, Miller sits in a generation that inherited rigid scripts about toughness, competence, and stoicism, especially for men who “look” capable. The quote suggests a moment where his inner life collides with his outward read. It’s the mismatch between how others interpret you and what you actually feel - a tension familiar in public life, in parenting, in any situation where being “the big one” means you’re drafted into steadiness.
By confessing the “supposed,” Miller doesn’t just admit fear; he indicts the machinery that makes fear feel like failure.
The line is spare, almost transactional, which is why it stings. Height becomes shorthand for a whole social contract: tall men are cast as protectors, threats, anchors. You take up space, so you’re expected to control it. Miller’s sentence exposes how quickly we convert bodies into roles, and roles into emotional gag orders. It’s also quietly comic in the bleak way that good candor often is: as if six feet were a magic threshold where biology cancels anxiety. The absurdity is the point.
Contextually, Miller sits in a generation that inherited rigid scripts about toughness, competence, and stoicism, especially for men who “look” capable. The quote suggests a moment where his inner life collides with his outward read. It’s the mismatch between how others interpret you and what you actually feel - a tension familiar in public life, in parenting, in any situation where being “the big one” means you’re drafted into steadiness.
By confessing the “supposed,” Miller doesn’t just admit fear; he indicts the machinery that makes fear feel like failure.
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| Topic | Fear |
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