"I am sure it is one's duty as a teacher to try to show boys that no opinions, no tastes, no emotions are worth much unless they are one's own. I suffered acutely as a boy from the lack of being shown this"
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The subtext is confession disguised as pedagogy. “I suffered acutely” is doing more than tugging at sympathy; it’s an indictment of a culture that treated boys as vessels to be filled with approved sensibilities. Benson’s ache reads like the aftershock of a formation that prized correctness over inner authorship. He’s naming a specific cruelty: when your tastes are assigned, your emotions become performances. You learn to like what you’re supposed to like, to feel what earns approval, and you end up estranged from your own reactions.
Context matters: Benson wrote from inside the English public-school and Cambridge world, where education often meant social reproduction with a moral gloss. His insistence on “duty as a teacher” flips the usual hierarchy. The teacher’s job isn’t to furnish students with the right views, but to make room for the risky process of forming a self. The sentence works because it’s both admonition and apology - a late attempt to give his students what he never got: permission to be the author of their interior life.
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Benson, A. C. (2026, January 16). I am sure it is one's duty as a teacher to try to show boys that no opinions, no tastes, no emotions are worth much unless they are one's own. I suffered acutely as a boy from the lack of being shown this. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-sure-it-is-ones-duty-as-a-teacher-to-try-to-138223/
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Benson, A. C. "I am sure it is one's duty as a teacher to try to show boys that no opinions, no tastes, no emotions are worth much unless they are one's own. I suffered acutely as a boy from the lack of being shown this." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-sure-it-is-ones-duty-as-a-teacher-to-try-to-138223/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am sure it is one's duty as a teacher to try to show boys that no opinions, no tastes, no emotions are worth much unless they are one's own. I suffered acutely as a boy from the lack of being shown this." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-sure-it-is-ones-duty-as-a-teacher-to-try-to-138223/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






