"I am the least intimidating person. I think I would have done better in my career if I were a little more intimidating. Even the maid who comes to work for me once a week has found out that she can just trample over me... I'm a Cancer! We are not ferocious people"
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The maid anecdote is doing more than getting a laugh. It's domestic, small-stakes, and faintly humiliating on purpose: power dynamics don't vanish at home, they just change costumes. By choosing someone who comes "once a week", Black underlines how even minimal contact can become a negotiation of boundaries when you're not comfortable asserting them. It's also a sly inversion of celebrity: the famous actress, supposedly commanding, is outmaneuvered in her own kitchen.
Then she gives us "I'm a Cancer!" which reads like a punchline and a shield. Astrology isn't evidence; it's a socially acceptable way to admit vulnerability without making it melodramatic. By saying "we are not ferocious people", she turns a personal trait into a type, softening self-judgment while indicting a culture that rewards ferocity. The subtext is sharp: if intimidation is a career skill, the system is designed to mistake kindness for weakness.
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Black, Karen. (2026, January 16). I am the least intimidating person. I think I would have done better in my career if I were a little more intimidating. Even the maid who comes to work for me once a week has found out that she can just trample over me... I'm a Cancer! We are not ferocious people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-least-intimidating-person-i-think-i-118284/
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Black, Karen. "I am the least intimidating person. I think I would have done better in my career if I were a little more intimidating. Even the maid who comes to work for me once a week has found out that she can just trample over me... I'm a Cancer! We are not ferocious people." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-least-intimidating-person-i-think-i-118284/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am the least intimidating person. I think I would have done better in my career if I were a little more intimidating. Even the maid who comes to work for me once a week has found out that she can just trample over me... I'm a Cancer! We are not ferocious people." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-least-intimidating-person-i-think-i-118284/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




