"I am the Love that dare not speak its name"
About this Quote
Written in the orbit of late-Victorian moral panic and deployed during the Oscar Wilde trials, the phrase became a kind of legal-pressure lyric. In court, what reads as poetic discretion on the page was treated as evidence of deviance. That collision is the subtext: society demands confession, then punishes articulation. Douglas’s wording answers with a paradox. Love is introduced as daring, but the daring is forced into silence. The “name” matters because names confer legitimacy; to deny a name is to deny citizenship.
Douglas also makes a strategic move by calling it “Love,” not sex, not vice, not even “sin.” He claims the moral high ground without preaching, smuggling tenderness into a public language engineered for condemnation. The phrase lands because it’s compact enough to travel: a slogan, a shield, a provocation. It keeps intimacy intact while indicting the system that turns affection into contraband, and it dares readers to notice who benefits from keeping certain loves unnamed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | "Two Loves" (poem), Lord Alfred Douglas; contains the line "I am the Love that dare not speak its name." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Douglas, Lord Alfred. (2026, January 16). I am the Love that dare not speak its name. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-love-that-dare-not-speak-its-name-133141/
Chicago Style
Douglas, Lord Alfred. "I am the Love that dare not speak its name." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-love-that-dare-not-speak-its-name-133141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am the Love that dare not speak its name." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-the-love-that-dare-not-speak-its-name-133141/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









