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Motherhood Quote by Angelina Grimke

"I appeal to you, my friends, as mothers: are you willing to enslave your children? You stare back with horror and indignation at such questions. But why, if slavery is not wrong to those upon whom it is imposed?"

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Grimke doesn’t ask permission to be heard; she drafts her audience into the moral dilemma. By addressing “mothers,” she grabs the one social role 19th-century women were allowed to claim in public without being scolded for overstepping. It’s a tactical move: she uses the era’s sentimental ideal of motherhood not to soothe, but to indict. The question is engineered to make refusal impossible. Of course you wouldn’t “enslave your children.” The instant the listener answers in her mind, Grimke has already tightened the trap: if slavery is intolerable when aimed at your own, what alchemy makes it acceptable when aimed at someone else’s?

That pivot - “But why” - is the blade. She’s not debating policy or economics; she’s exposing a psychological loophole, the way moral disgust gets selectively applied depending on who counts as “ours.” The subtext is accusation with plausible deniability: she lets her audience supply the condemnation themselves, then forces them to notice the hypocrisy.

Context sharpens the edge. Grimke, a white Southern-born abolitionist speaking to Northern women, is operating inside a culture that told women to stay out of politics and told white Christians they could oppose cruelty while still tolerating a system built on it. She turns domestic feeling into political responsibility, suggesting that maternal empathy is meaningless if it stops at the boundary of race. It’s persuasion as confrontation: she doesn’t flatter her listeners’ virtue; she drafts it into action.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grimke, Angelina. (2026, January 16). I appeal to you, my friends, as mothers: are you willing to enslave your children? You stare back with horror and indignation at such questions. But why, if slavery is not wrong to those upon whom it is imposed? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-appeal-to-you-my-friends-as-mothers-are-you-108861/

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Grimke, Angelina. "I appeal to you, my friends, as mothers: are you willing to enslave your children? You stare back with horror and indignation at such questions. But why, if slavery is not wrong to those upon whom it is imposed?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-appeal-to-you-my-friends-as-mothers-are-you-108861/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I appeal to you, my friends, as mothers: are you willing to enslave your children? You stare back with horror and indignation at such questions. But why, if slavery is not wrong to those upon whom it is imposed?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-appeal-to-you-my-friends-as-mothers-are-you-108861/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Angelina Grimke (February 20, 1805 - October 26, 1879) was a Activist from USA.

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