"I assume that if people get to know me, they'll like me. If they don't, it's not my problem"
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Then she snaps the sentence shut: “If they don’t, it’s not my problem.” That pivot is the whole engine. It rejects the emotional labor of managing strangers’ reactions, a labor intensified for actresses whose careers can be tangled with public perception, gossip economies, and a constant, gendered pressure to be agreeable. The phrase “not my problem” doesn’t deny consequences; it denies ownership. Disapproval is reframed as someone else’s projection, not her deficit.
Context matters here: Sorvino came up in an industry that rewards charm while punishing “difficulty,” and she later became a prominent voice around power dynamics in Hollywood. Read through that lens, the quote doubles as a survival strategy: be open, be decent, but don’t hand over the keys to your self-worth. It’s a compact manifesto against the tyranny of being “relatable” on demand, especially when the audience feels entitled to a version of you that’s easier to consume.
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Sorvino, Mira. (2026, January 16). I assume that if people get to know me, they'll like me. If they don't, it's not my problem. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-assume-that-if-people-get-to-know-me-theyll-88744/
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Sorvino, Mira. "I assume that if people get to know me, they'll like me. If they don't, it's not my problem." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-assume-that-if-people-get-to-know-me-theyll-88744/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I assume that if people get to know me, they'll like me. If they don't, it's not my problem." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-assume-that-if-people-get-to-know-me-theyll-88744/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







