"I became more confident within myself and matured as a person and become a little bit more opinionated - maybe the lads might say a little bit too opinionated for their liking but that is just a natural progression for a player"
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There is something quietly defiant in Cunningham framing “too opinionated” as not a personality flaw but a career milestone. Athletes are expected to evolve physically; he’s insisting the mental evolution counts just as much, even when it irritates the room. The line captures a familiar locker-room tension: team culture loves “leaders” in theory, but only as long as leadership stays within the unspoken boundaries of deference, hierarchy, and keeping grievances private.
His phrasing does a lot of social work. “The lads” is casual and affectionate, a soft shield that keeps the critique from sounding like a feud. He acknowledges the pushback (“for their liking”) while refusing to apologize for it. That “maybe” is a classic bit of athlete diplomacy: he concedes just enough to seem self-aware, then pivots to inevitability. Calling it “natural progression” reframes conflict as growth, turning what might be read as ego into professionalism.
The subtext is about voice and agency in an industry that often rewards compliance. Younger players survive by absorbing instruction and staying agreeable; older, more established players start to see patterns, politics, and standards slipping. Becoming “more opinionated” can mean demanding better training, questioning tactics, or calling out complacency - all risky moves in a group that polices dissent through banter and exclusion more than formal discipline.
It also signals a shift from being shaped by the team to helping shape it. Cunningham is describing maturity not as serenity, but as the willingness to be slightly inconvenient.
His phrasing does a lot of social work. “The lads” is casual and affectionate, a soft shield that keeps the critique from sounding like a feud. He acknowledges the pushback (“for their liking”) while refusing to apologize for it. That “maybe” is a classic bit of athlete diplomacy: he concedes just enough to seem self-aware, then pivots to inevitability. Calling it “natural progression” reframes conflict as growth, turning what might be read as ego into professionalism.
The subtext is about voice and agency in an industry that often rewards compliance. Younger players survive by absorbing instruction and staying agreeable; older, more established players start to see patterns, politics, and standards slipping. Becoming “more opinionated” can mean demanding better training, questioning tactics, or calling out complacency - all risky moves in a group that polices dissent through banter and exclusion more than formal discipline.
It also signals a shift from being shaped by the team to helping shape it. Cunningham is describing maturity not as serenity, but as the willingness to be slightly inconvenient.
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| Topic | Confidence |
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