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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Bella Abzug

"I began wearing hats as a young lawyer because it helped me to establish my professional identity. Before that, whenever I was at a meeting, someone would ask me to get coffee"

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A hat sounds like a style choice until Abzug frames it as survival gear in a profession built to misrecognize her. The line lands because it’s funny in the way sexism often is: absurd, banal, and relentless. A “young lawyer” walks into a meeting and gets mistaken for the help; the punchline is that the room isn’t confused about her competence, it’s rehearsed in its hierarchy. Abzug’s solution isn’t a grand manifesto. It’s branding - not in the shallow influencer sense, but as a tactical signal flaring above the noise: I belong at the table, and I’m not bringing anyone’s coffee.

The subtext is sharper than the anecdote. Professional “identity” here isn’t self-expression; it’s forced legibility. Abzug understood that women were required to over-communicate authority just to be treated as baseline participants. The hat becomes a portable credential, an accessory pressed into service because institutions weren’t built to read her correctly.

Context matters: Abzug came up in mid-century law and politics, worlds that treated male presence as default and female presence as either decorative or domestic. Her famous wide-brimmed hats later became a political signature, but this origin story reveals the real engine: defiance disguised as wardrobe. She turns a sexist slight into a controlled narrative, flipping the social script with a prop. The wit isn’t ornamental; it’s a weapon, exposing how easily “professionalism” becomes a costume demanded by gatekeepers - and how cunningly you can use that costume against them.

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Bella Abzug (July 24, 1920 - March 31, 1998) was a Lawyer from USA.

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