"I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love"
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The intent is diagnostic and strategic. By framing love as something a nation can “move away from,” she implies a drift driven by forces with names: racism, patriarchy, consumer capitalism, militarism, punitive governance. The subtext is that Americans are being trained to confuse love with possession, romance with rescue, and intimacy with domination. When a society prizes winning over care and markets over community, “love” becomes sentimental cover for systems that remain, in practice, loveless.
Context matters: hooks wrote through the late Cold War, the rise of neoliberalism, culture-war polarization, and the commodification of selfhood. Her critique anticipates our current attention economy, where outrage is profitable and empathy is treated as a soft luxury. The sentence works because it refuses nostalgia while still mourning a loss. It turns a seemingly personal motive into an indictment of national priorities, then invites the reader into the uncomfortable possibility that love is not what we feel, but what we are willing to build.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Later attribution: Be the Parent of Your Child's Dreams (Malcolm Bonner, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9780971294325 · ID: i5LjBwAAQBAJ
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... I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love. – bell hooks Many have expressed concern about a certain spirit that they perceive in society – a mean-spiritedness. Meanness of spirit ... |
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Hooks, Bell. (2026, March 4). I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-began-writing-a-book-on-love-because-i-felt-131836/
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Hooks, Bell. "I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love." FixQuotes. March 4, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-began-writing-a-book-on-love-because-i-felt-131836/.
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"I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love." FixQuotes, 4 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-began-writing-a-book-on-love-because-i-felt-131836/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.




