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Daily Inspiration Quote by Candice Bergen

"I believe a lot in monogamy, let me tell you"

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“I believe a lot in monogamy, let me tell you” lands less like a manifesto than a perfectly timed eyebrow-raise. Coming from Candice Bergen, an actress whose public persona has long been entwined with poise, intelligence, and the knowing comedy of Murphy Brown-era feminism, the line reads as performance as much as confession. “I believe” signals virtue; “a lot” oversells it; “let me tell you” snaps the whole thing into conversational, slightly defensive intimacy. The rhythm suggests she’s responding to an implication: that her life, her industry, or her generation has been marked by romantic chaos, and she’s preemptively negotiating that stereotype.

The subtext is where it gets interesting. Monogamy here isn’t framed as dreamy devotion; it’s framed as a position you have to declare, almost like a political affiliation, because in celebrity culture fidelity is treated as both suspicious and marketable. Bergen’s delivery (even on the page you can hear it) implies she’s aware of the audience’s smirk. She’s not pleading for approval so much as reclaiming control of the narrative: you can’t scandalize me with your assumptions if I name the ideal first.

There’s also an actor’s pragmatism in the phrasing. “Believe in” makes monogamy sound aspirational, not guaranteed. It acknowledges the gap between values and behavior without moralizing. In that small, wry space, Bergen captures how modern commitment often functions: less a fairy tale, more a stance you keep choosing, especially when everyone expects you to fail at it.

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Bergen, Candice. (2026, January 17). I believe a lot in monogamy, let me tell you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-a-lot-in-monogamy-let-me-tell-you-39427/

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Bergen, Candice. "I believe a lot in monogamy, let me tell you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-a-lot-in-monogamy-let-me-tell-you-39427/.

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"I believe a lot in monogamy, let me tell you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-a-lot-in-monogamy-let-me-tell-you-39427/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Candice Bergen (born May 9, 1946) is a Actress from USA.

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