"I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and compassion, which man structurally does not have, does not have it because he cannot have it. He's just incapable of it"
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The provocation is in “structurally.” That word smuggles anatomy and architecture into what sounds like a moral claim. She’s not merely praising women’s empathy; she’s suggesting the system that produces “man” is built to deny it. The repetition - “does not have, does not have it” - works like a hammering refrain, performing impatience with debate. It implies the evidence is everywhere: in governance that treats people as abstractions, in public life that rewards dominance over care.
Context matters. Jordan came up in a mid-century political world where women, especially Black women, were expected to soften their convictions into palatable “niceness.” Here she refuses that script. She speaks with the authority of someone who watched power at close range and learned that cruelty often travels under the banner of rationality. Read charitably, it’s less anti-male than anti-machinery: a critique of how masculinity is trained, incentivized, and insulated.
It’s also a high-risk move. Essentializing women as naturally compassionate can become another cage, a way to assign them emotional labor while men keep the levers. Jordan’s genius is that she uses the stereotype like a crowbar: not to domesticate women, but to indict a political culture that confuses hardness with competence.
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Jordan, Barbara. (2026, February 19). I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and compassion, which man structurally does not have, does not have it because he cannot have it. He's just incapable of it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-have-a-capacity-for-36923/
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Jordan, Barbara. "I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and compassion, which man structurally does not have, does not have it because he cannot have it. He's just incapable of it." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-have-a-capacity-for-36923/.
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"I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and compassion, which man structurally does not have, does not have it because he cannot have it. He's just incapable of it." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-have-a-capacity-for-36923/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








