"I believe that women should live for themselves, and that men should support them in that"
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Then comes the provocation: “and that men should support them in that.” It’s not “allow,” not “lead,” not even “understand.” Support implies labor. Emotional labor, domestic labor, social labor: the unglamorous, day-to-day work that makes someone else’s freedom actually livable. It’s also strategically framed as a relational ask rather than separatism, which matters coming from a public figure whose life has been read like a serialized marriage debate. In that tabloid-saturated context, the sentence doubles as a rebuttal to the idea that a woman’s selfhood is a threat to partnership; the threat, she implies, is partnership built on her self-erasure.
The subtext is a challenge to men who want empowered women as an aesthetic but not as a practice. If you believe in women “living for themselves,” you don’t get to be a spectator. You pick up the weight.
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Smith, Jada Pinkett. (2026, January 15). I believe that women should live for themselves, and that men should support them in that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-should-live-for-themselves-171886/
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Smith, Jada Pinkett. "I believe that women should live for themselves, and that men should support them in that." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-should-live-for-themselves-171886/.
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"I believe that women should live for themselves, and that men should support them in that." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-women-should-live-for-themselves-171886/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











